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Listening to Your Body: When is Pain Normal, What are the "Red Flags," and When is Surgery Necessary?

Dr. Rivka C. Lomedico

Orthopedic Spine Surgeon · Jun 22, 2026

Dr. Rivka Lomedico smiling in her clinic beside a spine model

Pain is your body’s way of communicating with you, but it doesn't always speak the same language. Sometimes, it’s just telling you to slow down and rest. Other times, it’s sounding an alarm that something more serious is happening. Understanding the difference between "normal" pain and "red flag" pain is crucial for protecting your spinal health and knowing when it's time to consider surgery.

Normal vs. Abnormal Pain: Recognizing the "Red Flags"

Most people experience back or neck pain at some point in their lives. Normal wear and tear on your spinal discs can cause your spinal bones to bump into one another, leading to local muscle soreness, stiffness, or aching. In most cases, this kind of pain is manageable and will improve with conservative treatments like physical therapy, anti-inflammatory medications, or simply time.

However, when spinal problems compress the delicate nerves or the spinal cord itself, the pain changes from a standard ache to a serious medical issue. Here are the major "red flags" that signal your pain is not normal:

  • Radiculopathy (Pinched Nerve): This occurs when a small nerve root is compressed. Instead of just a sore back or neck, you will experience shooting pain, numbness, tingling, or weakness that radiates down into your arms, hands, thighs, calves, or feet.
  • Myelopathy (Spinal Cord Compression): This is a syndrome caused by pressure on the large spinal cord itself. It may not even present as severe pain, but rather as a loss of finger coordination, difficulty with balance, or trouble controlling your bowels and bladder.
  • Cauda Equina Syndrome: This is an absolute medical emergency. If you ever experience a sudden loss of bowel or bladder control, difficulty urinating, or numbness around your genital (private) area, you must seek medical attention immediately.

When Does Surgery Become Necessary?

I always tell my patients that surgery is generally the last option. We almost always recommend waiting at least six to twelve weeks to see if your body can heal using conservative treatments like physical therapy, chiropractic care, acupuncture, or steroid injections.

However, surgery becomes necessary when your symptoms severely interfere with your quality of life and when no other reasonable alternatives are working. If you have severe stenosis (narrowing of the spinal canal) or a herniated disc that is crushing a nerve and causing progressive weakness or myelopathy, we need to intervene.

It is important to understand the goal of surgery: I operate to take the pressure off your nerves and to stop future nerve damage from occurring. The surgery itself does not instantly heal the nerve; instead, it creates the best possible environment for your body to heal the nerve over time.

Post-Surgery: What is Normal Healing vs. A Complication?

Once you have had surgery, your body has to adjust, and you will experience new types of pain. It is incredibly important to know what to expect so you don't panic, but also so you know when to call the office.

Normal Post-Operative Sensations:

  • Incision Pain and Numbness: It is completely normal to have numbness, tenderness, and occasional sharp pains around your surgical incision.
  • Muscle Aches: Your back or neck will likely hurt more for a little while. This is because we are realigning your spine and stretching muscles that have been in the wrong position for a long time.
  • Fluctuating Nerve Symptoms: It is normal to have fluctuating leg or arm pain, tingling, and numbness after surgery. Nerves take a long time to heal—sometimes 6 to 12 months—and as they wake up, they can produce a wide range of sensations.
  • Temporary Weakness: Because the nerves were manipulated and decompressed during surgery, they can temporarily swell, leading to brief periods of new pain or weakness, such as temporary shoulder weakness (C5 palsy) or foot drop.

Post-Operative "Red Flags" (When to Call the Doctor): While we expect some bumps in the road during recovery, you should contact our office immediately if you experience any of the following:

  • A fever of 101.4°F (101.5°F) or higher.
  • Any drainage, redness, swelling, or separation at the incision site.
  • A severe, sudden increase in pain that your medication does not help.
  • New or worsening problems urinating or passing bowel movements.
  • Any new numbness around your buttocks or genital area.
  • Severe headaches, light sensitivity, or worsening problems with swallowing or breathing.

Your body is incredibly resilient, but it needs time and the right environment to heal. By listening to your symptoms and knowing when to ask for help, you can ensure a safe and successful recovery journey.

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